When Paige was in High School she had the same dreams of every other girl her age, boyfriends, social engagements, popularity and acceptance. She didn’t look too far ahead into the future and she didn’t think beyond tomorrow. And frankly she frightened us.
When Paige hit her senior year, however, realizing the choices of the first three years of High School would affect her University options, she began to get serious and we saw a marked change begin to occur. She slowly emerged from the playful kid who took little to heart or seriously and began to grow into a culturally aware contributing member of society.
This was her freshman year of College, and although she didn’t go to a State school or University, Paige did take on her first year at Junior College with a clear plan and objective and took on the drive to excel and succeed with a vengeance. She was clearly out to prove that although her past choices affected her ability to attend mainstream college as a freshman, she was not going to allow that to impact her mark on the world.
Recently Paige submit an article on her page of this blog WRITTEN PAIGE, in which she outlined an event that took place at a recent Senate meeting at her school, in which the current president stated that the comedy lineup for a fund raising event sponsoring their Gay Straight Alliance was “too gay”. Paige was astounded and angered and frustrated by the myopic if not limited perception of her classmate and was outraged at the implication that anything could be deemed “TOO GAY”. Instead of lamenting the issue, and crying the blues about her leadership in school, Paige decided to take action and as a freshman took on the task of running for President for the upcoming fall.
Though her opponent took on smear tactics and negative campaigning iniatives to defeat her opponent, Paige did not succumb to such tactics in her own campaign, instead highlighted the positive and opted to promote herself and her values through change initiatives and listening to her student body needs. She ran a clean campaign and won by 104 votes. Paige’s success was pivotal in her understanding of the power of positive, and the ability to make a difference through positive measures and communication.
Standing up can be scary. Taking on a fight or campaign in which we set ourselves apart, and often find ourselves combatting ignorance fear and hate, takes incredible courage and faith and while she may have doubted herself for a moment here or there, in truth she took it on with a vengeance and opted to evoke change and make a difference through the example she set in leadership. She didn’t have to smear her opponent or her opponents beliefs, she didn’t have to slander or intimidate her opponent, she simply had to stand up and stand strong for her own values and character and believe first and formost in herself and secondarily in the fundamental morality of equality and change.
No matter who you are, no matter what you stand for, as long as it is in sync with making positive change and reaching out to make a positive difference in your community and the world around you, anything is possible. STAND UP AND STAND STRONG
We don’t always get along, this daughter of mine and I, and often I make mistakes in raising her, but the one thing I am assured of is that for all of my “mistakes” and transgressions, I raised a leader, and a fighter and a survivor who knows the value of LIFE as a gift and the importance of FREEDOM to live life in full authenticity of who you are. I raised a daughter who knows that leadership is commanded and not demanded and making a difference and executing change is hard earned but the payoff is extraordinary. I raised a child who has become a young woman of exceptional value to her community and school and who brings absolute joy and a drive to succeed at all costs.
We are so VERY PROUD of you PAIGE! You will make a significant difference in your community, and you are leaving your own indelible mark on the world, and we could not be more joyous or proud of you than we are today, right here, and right now in this moment!