I posted the bullying blog to a number of social networking sites, one in particular is a professional networking site, Linkedin. I have had some dialoge with the members of the years, though no commentary so inspiring or of interest as the one that comes from Mr. Satori Agape from Reno, Nevada.
He and I share a number of groups, and relationships, and have crossed paths every here now and then, and he has always struck me as the ultimate peace keeper, a man who rises above it all, and turns the other cheek. I now know in greater detail why that is. In response to the BULLY Blog, and the address for the importance of using a voice, particularly in the LGBTQ communities, and the passion for the Human Rights Campaign, he sent me the following message I felt compelled and with his permission, now share with you.
Satori Agape • Good Day All.
Jessica Arent,
Wow!.. I would have never known. Within the LGBT community we have a chant or common mantra that is often brought up… Silence = Death. And I feel you have a very strong point brought up within your posting. Thank you for taking the time to share it and express your thoughts and feelings. I’ve had my experiences as well, but not to a severity that I’ve seen with yours or what others had endured.
I recall once growing up in elementary school, I was bullied by a kid who was older. One day my friends and I were playing dodge ball. Well the ball was thrown and I went after it. It happened that the same kid was nearby and he got to the ball first – he wasn’t playing the game. But he then told me that I had to kiss his sneakers – I knew that was wrong and something in me wouldn’t budge. Another friend of mine came over and nudged me to just do it — so I gave in and did it. As did my friend. The kid threw the ball back at us and we went back but I began crying.. and I couldn’t stop myself.. Recess ended and we went back into class, but I continued – the teacher eventually asked what happened and what was wrong.
I still couldn’t really communicate it threw my sobbing. Luckily my friend was able to but then he began to become overwhelmed with what happened and he started to cry too. The teacher eventually got that student into the class room and she forced him to do what he did to us… he had him kiss our sneakers. Then a girl in our class started to cry – it turns out it was her older brother.
The teacher (Mrs Hill) had contacted all parents to let them know what had happened. During the remainder of the day, she helped console both myself and my friend. That night my parents also helped to talk things out.
Anyways that was back then. — It’s interesting having to recall this as I remember another incident that happened.. Another kid during recess was calling me names and making fun of me. We all we’re playing a game.. I believe it was volleyball.. Anyways something in me snapped and I went after him and then started to hit him. I felt like a bull that saw red.. Looking back at this, I regret having done it. Regardless of the fact that I was just a kid then… I do know that around my early teens I started to self-recall events through my life and relive them. I didn’t seem to do it by reminiscing but moreso to go over what happened and also learn something. I learned that I didn’t have to give into my emotional passion at the time. But I did back then and I was learning… and sorry for what happened.
Later in life … in my mid to late teens, I was introduced to certain spiritual concepts and bodies of knowledge and soon realized I was aligned in many ways to it. One body of knowledge was the Toltec. Within this practice it speaks of “the petty tyrant”.. which I could see many having had encounters throughout my life.
After learning this I began working with that knowledge and was able to use the situation to my advantage — it taught me further skills in what was known as “Controlled Folly”… in my experience and opinion, is a technique whereby one learns to utilize skills and methods to unhinge ones emotional investment and importance of situations and circumstances. After which, we then “play” our actions and thoughts in impeccable ways to master the overall situation. Petty tyrants are much like a testing or proofing ground towards the self-mastery and learning of Toltec stalking techniques.
Good Journey,
Sincerely,
Satori.
About Satori Agape: Holistic Health Practitioner/Educator, Massage Therapist, Aromatherapist.- focused on the positive and life in harmony, Mr Satori is very involved in the Human Rights Campaign and promotes kindness and alternate solutions to crises matters.